Creating a life you love is something any woman can do, if she wants it badly enough. Well, I am a good example of living a life I have created rather than being flung in to.
It is nothing less than focussing on what we want, rather than focussing on what we don't.
How does it work? The more we have brought something in to our conscious mind, the more we notice it in our subconscious. For example, we get pregnant and all of a sudden it seems like there are so many more pregnant women around. We buy a car, and all of a sudden they are everywhere. Life's the same. The more we want something, the more we see it and opportunities opening up around us to get us there.
Conversely the more we don't want something or talk about what we don't have or don't like, the more we get the same. It isn't a trick of the mind, it is just that our mind doesn't know we DO or DON'T it just knows it IS. Another example of this is if we didn't want to be pregnant, but were, our mind would still start noticing all the pregnant women around us - it doesn't know we DON'T want to be pregnant. It just knows we ARE. Get it?
So, that's were the fun stuff can happen for us. The more we consciously focus our minds on the stuff we DO have and the stuff we DO want, the more we get of it.
Give it a go girls! It really DOES work.
Next post I'm going to chat about how come we as humans tend to focus a lot on the stuff we don't have and what we don't want. So don't feel bad, it's normal. lol